It is true! It is true! Time flies when we are having fun. If you don't believe me, ask Pastor Lali... she is having a ball these days. I'm writing on behalf of Pastor Lali b/c she is just too busy (and so are the boys) to write and provide all the earth with an update on our dear, Pastor Santiago. By the way, Pastor Lali is busy preparing to speak at a Women's Sectional Service tommorow, in which she will give her testimony. Praise God! Pray for her that as she continues to tell others of God's faithfulness, she will encourage and build the faith of those who need it most.
As for Pastor Santiago... if you know him, you know he is no joke. He is himself once again!!! He has graduated out of a wheel chair, out of a walker and is now walking with a cane. Actually it looks like he is walking the cane as opposed to the cane being a support for him. Only Pastor!
If you haven't heard, Pastor has taken over speaking in the church; he is the exclusive preacher on Sundays and now on Thursdays as well. He is a preacher and loves to preach. I think since he has been back Pastor Mark got to preach hhm!.... a total of ONE time. Ha! Ha! That's Pastor for ya!
Pastor is busy getting therapy three times a week... soon Helen Hayes will promote him out of their services and back into the real world. I think Pastor's biggest struggle is not being able to drive and being dragged all over the place by his drivers. He does come to work almost every day (we actually have to tell him we are giving him the day off and he can stay home). Of course he does not listen to us! You try telling him after almost seven months away from his people, he should stay home. I don't think so! :-)
So we are grateful the Lord remains faithful. However, please do continue to pray for his left hand, his shoulder and his right leg. They seem a little more stubborn then the rest of the body. We need his entire body to be aligned properly, so we the body of Christ will follow suit.
The family is great, Pastor Mark continues to teach his SS class and to lead the worship team to new levels in the Lord. Mark has been investing more time in the development of the Sound Ministry (of which most of the members are under the age of 14). Please continue to pray for Mark and God's future plans for him and his family.
Sister Brenda is being renewed daily and strengthened in the Lord as she continues to lead intercession and remains faithful to the call. Please pray for her she is studying this semester and working full-time and of course raising three children.
John is doing well, God has shown himself faithful again and continues to show John that He is the one who gives and takes away. Amen! Pray for his God willed future.
As for big brother Rod, I think he is doing well. He has been helpful when I've had to S.O.S. call him to his parents house. Thanks Rod. I've ran into him a few times at the hospital and he remains to be himself (always got something funny to say, especially about me! ha! ha!). Pray for Rod and his family as God continues to draw them closer to Him.
As for the church, please pray, pray, pray and pray some more. God is sovereign and who are we to question, right? However, we are human and sometimes it is difficult to see God in situations. We do need to continue to believe and trust God in all areas of our lives. God is not man or the son of man to lie or to retract his promises. We must stand on the Word of God. God's word is true and he said "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who have been called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28)
God bless you all and thank you for impacting our lives in such a mighty way! You have served to be used of God to accomplish his purposes for and in us. Blessings to you and yours! - Marisel
Friday, November 14, 2008
Monday, October 6, 2008
Update
Dear Friends & Family,
September 10th, as you know we were able to finally bring Chris home. God continues to be our strong fortress and we ar grateful for His love and enduring mercy. We are also grateful for family and friends such as you. All of your prayers and supplications before God have reached His throne and mercy. THANK YOU!
I was going to HHH everyday including the weekends. On Sundays Mark,Brenda and the children would pick Chris up and take him to church. We would attend Sunday School and Chris would preach during the Sunday Service. Everyone has been very kind. We have hit some serious bumps, but God's grace has been sufficient to keep us afloat. After the service we would go to dinner...Chris likes the Cheesecake Factory. We also found a Latino restaurant in Haverstraw where they make some pretty good PR food. After eating we would take Chris back to the hospital and then go home. (Very sad leaving him there every Sunday after spending the day with him). The kids especially did not like it. Kathy, Kristin, Alicia and Joshua have all visited Papa. My three sons, Rodney, Mark and John have been beyond what one expects from offsprings. They have been my comfort and strength. Brenda has been awesome! What a fine woman of God we have been blessed with. Kathy has been supportive as well and so has Gina. John surprised me!! He preached one Sunday a couple of weeks ago and was used by God to minister to our church. Mark preaches frequently and he is very anointed and used by God. I feel so honored to have been gifted with these men of God. Our grandchildren are our pride and joy. Kristin went back to school (2nd year!! Alicia started school and Josh will be graduating from HS in two years. My little crew (Mark & Brenda's kids) David, Emily and Christian have also gone back to school. Everyone has really pulle together during this very trying time amd evem the children have shown understanding and compassion for Papa during these mamy months.
I continue to take Chris for Occupational therapy and exercises 3x a week. On our way home he stops at the church and does some work and checks the work going on. We go shopping for things we may need and then go home. He is back at doing his bookkeeping and I know that MARK is breathing a lot easier!!! Mark had become our bookkeeper. Thank you Mark, God Bless!
Chris is now using the walker only and we have put the wheelchair out of commission. Praise God....quite often Chris will walk around the house without the use of the walker as well. He truly is an inspiration. Not once have I heard him complainbe, other than when we were in Africa and he comlained because he couldn't go to church!!!
I do hope I haven't bored you with all this information; I just thought you't like an update. I will send pictures with my next blog which will probably be close to the last one.
Please write and let me know if you are still reading it.
Goodnight and God bless.
Love,
Lali
PS: Our church had a big welcoming home Fiesta for Chris this past Sunday. The church was packed and many ministers and their wives and visitors came. We felt very special and pleased having our Superintendent Rev. Rafael Reyes with us. Sister Eliza Carrion and Sister Ramonita Montes were also with us. As well zs the Women's District Leaders led by Sister Virginia Maldonado. (Her husband was also there!) Our Presbyter Rev. Joel Garcia and his wife were present as well. There were so many people and the festivity and the presence of the Lord was enjoyed by all. Mark preached and his sermon was a very anointed and powerful Word from God for the church. The congregation responded favorably and I know the Lord was in our midst. Praise God! I was especially pleased to have my sister Yoland and her hus band John present!!! Kathy, Joshie and Kristin surprised us as well...Alicia was in school and could not make it.
Chris and I are so blessed. Glory to God!!!!
September 10th, as you know we were able to finally bring Chris home. God continues to be our strong fortress and we ar grateful for His love and enduring mercy. We are also grateful for family and friends such as you. All of your prayers and supplications before God have reached His throne and mercy. THANK YOU!
I was going to HHH everyday including the weekends. On Sundays Mark,Brenda and the children would pick Chris up and take him to church. We would attend Sunday School and Chris would preach during the Sunday Service. Everyone has been very kind. We have hit some serious bumps, but God's grace has been sufficient to keep us afloat. After the service we would go to dinner...Chris likes the Cheesecake Factory. We also found a Latino restaurant in Haverstraw where they make some pretty good PR food. After eating we would take Chris back to the hospital and then go home. (Very sad leaving him there every Sunday after spending the day with him). The kids especially did not like it. Kathy, Kristin, Alicia and Joshua have all visited Papa. My three sons, Rodney, Mark and John have been beyond what one expects from offsprings. They have been my comfort and strength. Brenda has been awesome! What a fine woman of God we have been blessed with. Kathy has been supportive as well and so has Gina. John surprised me!! He preached one Sunday a couple of weeks ago and was used by God to minister to our church. Mark preaches frequently and he is very anointed and used by God. I feel so honored to have been gifted with these men of God. Our grandchildren are our pride and joy. Kristin went back to school (2nd year!! Alicia started school and Josh will be graduating from HS in two years. My little crew (Mark & Brenda's kids) David, Emily and Christian have also gone back to school. Everyone has really pulle together during this very trying time amd evem the children have shown understanding and compassion for Papa during these mamy months.
I continue to take Chris for Occupational therapy and exercises 3x a week. On our way home he stops at the church and does some work and checks the work going on. We go shopping for things we may need and then go home. He is back at doing his bookkeeping and I know that MARK is breathing a lot easier!!! Mark had become our bookkeeper. Thank you Mark, God Bless!
Chris is now using the walker only and we have put the wheelchair out of commission. Praise God....quite often Chris will walk around the house without the use of the walker as well. He truly is an inspiration. Not once have I heard him complainbe, other than when we were in Africa and he comlained because he couldn't go to church!!!
I do hope I haven't bored you with all this information; I just thought you't like an update. I will send pictures with my next blog which will probably be close to the last one.
Please write and let me know if you are still reading it.
Goodnight and God bless.
Love,
Lali
PS: Our church had a big welcoming home Fiesta for Chris this past Sunday. The church was packed and many ministers and their wives and visitors came. We felt very special and pleased having our Superintendent Rev. Rafael Reyes with us. Sister Eliza Carrion and Sister Ramonita Montes were also with us. As well zs the Women's District Leaders led by Sister Virginia Maldonado. (Her husband was also there!) Our Presbyter Rev. Joel Garcia and his wife were present as well. There were so many people and the festivity and the presence of the Lord was enjoyed by all. Mark preached and his sermon was a very anointed and powerful Word from God for the church. The congregation responded favorably and I know the Lord was in our midst. Praise God! I was especially pleased to have my sister Yoland and her hus band John present!!! Kathy, Joshie and Kristin surprised us as well...Alicia was in school and could not make it.
Chris and I are so blessed. Glory to God!!!!
Sunday, September 21, 2008
!! !!
Please note that we have been really, really busy. Up until 9/10th when Chris was finally discharged from Helen Hayes Hospital my day went something like this: Get up and out of the house by at least 10:00 AM return at 8:30 - 9:30 PM or later. Go to bed at about 12:00PM (NOT TO SLEEP - that was difficult). I watched Pastor Melissa Scott and enjoyed her teachings. I then fell asleep and was up at 6:30 - 7:00 am. It was then OFF TO THE RACE!! Chris usually had physical therapy, etc from early in the morning until about 4:00PM, with a break for lunch. At about 5:00PM we had visitors come and spend time with Chris. We prayed and spoke about many things.Chris was comforted by the overwhelming response of his friends, brethren and family. Our ROCK OF SALVATION FAMILY continued to provide Chris with homemade food which was quite delicious. (His weight gain proves that!) It gave me great comfort to see how the ladies from our church made sure that their Pastor was well cared for. May God richly bless them and their family for their devotion to God's Servant.
District Office and the people there were also very kind and helpful.
District Office and the people there were also very kind and helpful.
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
Friday, June 20, 2008
My God Is An Awesome God...
Chris, my family and I have settled in for the remainder of our journey. I anticipate that God will soon complete Chris' healing process and we can get on with the job of working for HIM.
Chris continues to improve and now he is moving more than he has since this all began. His knees and arms are getting stronger and the O.T.'s are standing him more and more. Everyone is quite pleased with his progress. Just want to mention some more "little" miracles. Many of the nurses, attendants, aids and hospital workers are christians. It seems that the Haverstraw church Jerusalem, has many workers at the hospital..from nurses to lab technicians, to aids,etc. It just so happens that many years ago Chris met many of these people and he also knows their Pastor. Coincidence? Not! They all pop in to say hello and they have been a blessing.
Our women's ministry at our church has been making sure that Pastor is fed and he has already gained 8 lbs. He looks better and better each day. He is determined to walk out of that hospital and he will! Sunday (Father's Day) we took him to church; he said he was ready and off we went. He was all "decked out" and when we arrived everyone was surprised. The reception was marvelous and Pastor was very pleased. When it was his turn to speak, I thought he was going to preach, but he didn't..he just caught himself and stopped! WHAT A MAN! After the celebration, we took him out to dinner to a beautiful restaurant...Mark, Brenda and the kids. David, Emily and Christian. Marisel and Donald their children, Matthew and Marissa were also with us. We had a wonderful time and didn't bring Pastor back until after 9:00PM We did not get in trouble. The nurses welcomed and were happy that he had had a good time.
Parece que le gusto, porque manana (Sectional Service for the Upstate Section at our church) he wants to be there. When I got to the hospital he informed me that he had already seen the people in charge and gotten permission to go to church tomorrow. He is really something! He also arranged to be at church on Sunday. (He's Back!)
We are so very happy to be back. I am a very different woman. I feel so very close to our Lord and His presence is ALWAYS with me. I can't explain the feeling..you'll
just have to trust me and pray that you experience the same thing. I don't ever
want to be the "old" me...I like the "new" me much better!
I want to thank our church for their prayers and for arranging to have someone bring Pastor homemade food every day. We have a wonderful congregation and they truly love their Pastor. Thanks guys!
I will try to keep you informed. Please understand that when I come home it is usually late and I am very tired. I want to keep you up to date and I will try very hard to do that!
Please continue to pray and seek God's love and favor for all of us. He is always ready, willing and able to do exceedingly well for us.
Love * Blessings,
Lali
Chris continues to improve and now he is moving more than he has since this all began. His knees and arms are getting stronger and the O.T.'s are standing him more and more. Everyone is quite pleased with his progress. Just want to mention some more "little" miracles. Many of the nurses, attendants, aids and hospital workers are christians. It seems that the Haverstraw church Jerusalem, has many workers at the hospital..from nurses to lab technicians, to aids,etc. It just so happens that many years ago Chris met many of these people and he also knows their Pastor. Coincidence? Not! They all pop in to say hello and they have been a blessing.
Our women's ministry at our church has been making sure that Pastor is fed and he has already gained 8 lbs. He looks better and better each day. He is determined to walk out of that hospital and he will! Sunday (Father's Day) we took him to church; he said he was ready and off we went. He was all "decked out" and when we arrived everyone was surprised. The reception was marvelous and Pastor was very pleased. When it was his turn to speak, I thought he was going to preach, but he didn't..he just caught himself and stopped! WHAT A MAN! After the celebration, we took him out to dinner to a beautiful restaurant...Mark, Brenda and the kids. David, Emily and Christian. Marisel and Donald their children, Matthew and Marissa were also with us. We had a wonderful time and didn't bring Pastor back until after 9:00PM We did not get in trouble. The nurses welcomed and were happy that he had had a good time.
Parece que le gusto, porque manana (Sectional Service for the Upstate Section at our church) he wants to be there. When I got to the hospital he informed me that he had already seen the people in charge and gotten permission to go to church tomorrow. He is really something! He also arranged to be at church on Sunday. (He's Back!)
We are so very happy to be back. I am a very different woman. I feel so very close to our Lord and His presence is ALWAYS with me. I can't explain the feeling..you'll
just have to trust me and pray that you experience the same thing. I don't ever
want to be the "old" me...I like the "new" me much better!
I want to thank our church for their prayers and for arranging to have someone bring Pastor homemade food every day. We have a wonderful congregation and they truly love their Pastor. Thanks guys!
I will try to keep you informed. Please understand that when I come home it is usually late and I am very tired. I want to keep you up to date and I will try very hard to do that!
Please continue to pray and seek God's love and favor for all of us. He is always ready, willing and able to do exceedingly well for us.
Love * Blessings,
Lali
Friday, June 6, 2008
HOME AT LAST! HOME AT LAST! THANK GOD ALMIGHTY WE'RE HOME AT LAST!
Hello,
We've been rather busy lately and I was unable to get to all of you. However, I promised to keep in touch and so....
On May 26th, Dr. Rob Campbell, Mark, Chris and I left Port Elizabeth, South Africa. My Ebenezer Family was there to see us off. I had decided to be strong and we had a wonderful time togther. June, Judy my wonderful caretakers, Pranitha & Mo (nurses from Greenacres), people we had met during our stay, Senior Pastor Neville and his wife Roji, together with the other Pastors and their wives, as well as Allan & Ruvina, Marvin & Lendyll, Marina, Loretta, Gisselle and Douline, Kurt's mom and sister were all there. I was really strong until it came time to really say goodbye and then I lost it. I am truly sorry. These people had become my family, Jane Freeman had taken me to dinner the night before...it was just overwhelming to see all these people, my South African family and realize that I may never see some of them again! It was very painful for me knowing I had to say goodby. Chris was also very much affected. We went through the gates and I realized my life would never be the same.
We arrived in NY at about 7:30 A.M. on the 27th. It was a very long trip but one I thoroughly enjoyed knowing that I would soon see my grandchildren, my daughters-in-law, my sons, my sister Yolanda and John who live in NY as well and my church family! The only one who slept like a log was Chris!!! Mark, the doctor and I slept a bit but most of the time we were awake. Dr. Campbell took excellent care of Chris and I was soooo grateful for this one more blessing from God. We had a stop over in Johannesburg, SA and Chris slept for 5 hours in a "sick bay." Mark and I roamed the airport for a while and Dr. Campbell stayed with Chris. (Yes, we gave Doctor a break a bit later)
When we arrived at JFK Chris was quickly taken by ambulance to Helen Hayes Hospital. The attendants were friends of Don's brother and were wonderful. (one more little miracle of the 100's we experienced during these past months!) Mark and the doctor accompanied Chris and I went with Marisel, Brenda and the children. (my gorgeous, beautiful children) We finally arrived at the hospital and were very pleased with what we saw. It is a beautiful facility and when Chris arrived the people who welcomed him said, "Rev. Santiago, we know all about you! We have been waiting for you! (another little miracle. It appears that Chris is well known!) Dr. Peter Reynolds received us and made us feel very welcome. He told us that he is a theologist and then proceeded to tell us, "God heals the patients and we doctors collect the money!" Another little miracle, a believer!
(*a must tell: While we were waiting to board at Jo'berg we met a wonderful Jewish man from Astoria/Queens who was on his way to LA. He looked like a Rabbi and after sharing our stories, he said it was time for him to pray and asked Chris if it was alright to pray for him...adding it's the same God we pray to. Chris, of course was very grateful. Our new found friend proceeded to pray right then in there facing East! Another little miracle! )
Introductions were quickly made, Dr. Campbell went off with Dr. Reynolds and Marisel, Brenda, Mark the children and I went to see Chris. He looked very comfortable. We spent a little time with him, while Marisel took Dr. Campbell to his Guest House.
Mark and Brenda finally took me home and the experience of entering my home after 5 months was overwhelming. I had forgotten where I put certain things and had to get reacquainted.. Kathy, Kristin and Joshie came over. Rodney and Gina arrived a bit later. Brenda cooked and we all ate together. I was beside myself with happpiness. I thought while they were all talking, is this a dream? I am sooo very grateful for God's love and tender mercies. I feel so different..so strong in the Lord...so confident about who God is and what He means to me!!! I decided I would share all this with my church family on Sunday!
The next day we, Mark and I picked up Dr. Campbell and took him back to the hospital. He toured the facility with Dr. Reynolds, while Mark and I spent some precious time with Chris...he already had begun to look better!!! We then caught up with Dr. Campbell and went off with him to tour NYC - "The City That NEVER Sleeps." We took him to The Broadway Theater District, Times Square, the sight of the Twin Towers, The Statue of Liberty (from afar), The Empire State Building and other sights. We then went to eat at Victor's Cafe and enjoyed some delicious Cuban Cuisine. The Doctor was quite impressed with everything. We had a wonderful time with the very personable, charming and kind Doctor who has become our friend. THe next day we again picked up Dr. Campbell, he went to say goodbye to Chris and to Doctor Reynolds. We then took him to the airport. I shall never forget him.
Sunday arrived sooner than I expected and pretty soon I was entering my church. I don't know exactly what happened but I began to shake from head to toe and became very frightened. I ran up the steps to Chris' office and waited for a while, then ran down the steps and Brenda led me to be seated in the sanctuary. I could not stop shaking. After a while I was able to get a grip on myself and listen to Mark speaking. He introduced me and I was able to speak to my church family. I had missed them, but had not realized how much until I looked at all of them. I was home. God had gone with us to Africa and God had come back home with us. WHAT A MIGHTY GOD WE SERVE! One of my most treasured moments was having my sister Yolanda and her husband John and my nephew Adam there in church with us. WOW, isn't generous with his gifts?
We, my family, my church family and friends have been visiting Chris and he has turned another corner to recovery. He looks wonderful! He is happy and is constantly smiling. He is eating and looking forward to visiting his church. We thought it wise to have him rest a while and then go to visit his beloved Rock of Salvation.
His stay at Helen Hayes may be short. I am trusting God that it will not be as long as some may think. Amen?
Please keep praying. If you are still reading the blog, please let me know and I will continue it until it is time to say, Chris is home and he has gone back to work!!
God Bless,
Lali
PS: I will send you pictures of the airport farewell some other time. I really cannot look at them just yet. I know you will understand!
We've been rather busy lately and I was unable to get to all of you. However, I promised to keep in touch and so....
On May 26th, Dr. Rob Campbell, Mark, Chris and I left Port Elizabeth, South Africa. My Ebenezer Family was there to see us off. I had decided to be strong and we had a wonderful time togther. June, Judy my wonderful caretakers, Pranitha & Mo (nurses from Greenacres), people we had met during our stay, Senior Pastor Neville and his wife Roji, together with the other Pastors and their wives, as well as Allan & Ruvina, Marvin & Lendyll, Marina, Loretta, Gisselle and Douline, Kurt's mom and sister were all there. I was really strong until it came time to really say goodbye and then I lost it. I am truly sorry. These people had become my family, Jane Freeman had taken me to dinner the night before...it was just overwhelming to see all these people, my South African family and realize that I may never see some of them again! It was very painful for me knowing I had to say goodby. Chris was also very much affected. We went through the gates and I realized my life would never be the same.
We arrived in NY at about 7:30 A.M. on the 27th. It was a very long trip but one I thoroughly enjoyed knowing that I would soon see my grandchildren, my daughters-in-law, my sons, my sister Yolanda and John who live in NY as well and my church family! The only one who slept like a log was Chris!!! Mark, the doctor and I slept a bit but most of the time we were awake. Dr. Campbell took excellent care of Chris and I was soooo grateful for this one more blessing from God. We had a stop over in Johannesburg, SA and Chris slept for 5 hours in a "sick bay." Mark and I roamed the airport for a while and Dr. Campbell stayed with Chris. (Yes, we gave Doctor a break a bit later)
When we arrived at JFK Chris was quickly taken by ambulance to Helen Hayes Hospital. The attendants were friends of Don's brother and were wonderful. (one more little miracle of the 100's we experienced during these past months!) Mark and the doctor accompanied Chris and I went with Marisel, Brenda and the children. (my gorgeous, beautiful children) We finally arrived at the hospital and were very pleased with what we saw. It is a beautiful facility and when Chris arrived the people who welcomed him said, "Rev. Santiago, we know all about you! We have been waiting for you! (another little miracle. It appears that Chris is well known!) Dr. Peter Reynolds received us and made us feel very welcome. He told us that he is a theologist and then proceeded to tell us, "God heals the patients and we doctors collect the money!" Another little miracle, a believer!
(*a must tell: While we were waiting to board at Jo'berg we met a wonderful Jewish man from Astoria/Queens who was on his way to LA. He looked like a Rabbi and after sharing our stories, he said it was time for him to pray and asked Chris if it was alright to pray for him...adding it's the same God we pray to. Chris, of course was very grateful. Our new found friend proceeded to pray right then in there facing East! Another little miracle! )
Introductions were quickly made, Dr. Campbell went off with Dr. Reynolds and Marisel, Brenda, Mark the children and I went to see Chris. He looked very comfortable. We spent a little time with him, while Marisel took Dr. Campbell to his Guest House.
Mark and Brenda finally took me home and the experience of entering my home after 5 months was overwhelming. I had forgotten where I put certain things and had to get reacquainted.. Kathy, Kristin and Joshie came over. Rodney and Gina arrived a bit later. Brenda cooked and we all ate together. I was beside myself with happpiness. I thought while they were all talking, is this a dream? I am sooo very grateful for God's love and tender mercies. I feel so different..so strong in the Lord...so confident about who God is and what He means to me!!! I decided I would share all this with my church family on Sunday!
The next day we, Mark and I picked up Dr. Campbell and took him back to the hospital. He toured the facility with Dr. Reynolds, while Mark and I spent some precious time with Chris...he already had begun to look better!!! We then caught up with Dr. Campbell and went off with him to tour NYC - "The City That NEVER Sleeps." We took him to The Broadway Theater District, Times Square, the sight of the Twin Towers, The Statue of Liberty (from afar), The Empire State Building and other sights. We then went to eat at Victor's Cafe and enjoyed some delicious Cuban Cuisine. The Doctor was quite impressed with everything. We had a wonderful time with the very personable, charming and kind Doctor who has become our friend. THe next day we again picked up Dr. Campbell, he went to say goodbye to Chris and to Doctor Reynolds. We then took him to the airport. I shall never forget him.
Sunday arrived sooner than I expected and pretty soon I was entering my church. I don't know exactly what happened but I began to shake from head to toe and became very frightened. I ran up the steps to Chris' office and waited for a while, then ran down the steps and Brenda led me to be seated in the sanctuary. I could not stop shaking. After a while I was able to get a grip on myself and listen to Mark speaking. He introduced me and I was able to speak to my church family. I had missed them, but had not realized how much until I looked at all of them. I was home. God had gone with us to Africa and God had come back home with us. WHAT A MIGHTY GOD WE SERVE! One of my most treasured moments was having my sister Yolanda and her husband John and my nephew Adam there in church with us. WOW, isn't generous with his gifts?
We, my family, my church family and friends have been visiting Chris and he has turned another corner to recovery. He looks wonderful! He is happy and is constantly smiling. He is eating and looking forward to visiting his church. We thought it wise to have him rest a while and then go to visit his beloved Rock of Salvation.
His stay at Helen Hayes may be short. I am trusting God that it will not be as long as some may think. Amen?
Please keep praying. If you are still reading the blog, please let me know and I will continue it until it is time to say, Chris is home and he has gone back to work!!
God Bless,
Lali
PS: I will send you pictures of the airport farewell some other time. I really cannot look at them just yet. I know you will understand!
Sunday, May 25, 2008
OUT OF AFRICA....NEW YORK HERE WE COME!
We are finally leaving!!! I am feeling very mixed emtions about going home! I am more than just happy, however, I have a family here now. It is difficult to say goodbye to them. Ebenezer Centre, its Senior Pastor Neville Goldman and his wife Roji, all the other pastors and their wives and the entire Ebenezer family have become my family here. I have NEVER been left alone. When my sons came they were wonderful and I was so very proud of the men they have become. However, after Marisel (my adopted daughter -smile) left, my sons weren't able to return. Ebenezer Centre made sure I had someone with me. I will never in a million years be able to repay their servant hearts. We must all pray that the Lord will continue blessing, protecting and anointing them until He comes for His church!
I have enclosed some pictures of a "surprise" going away party that they celebrated for us at the HOSPITAL!! Can you believe that! This certainly would never have happened in America!!! We were able to minister to some "guests" (other patients who were in the lounge). They were impressed with Pastor Nevilles "speeh" (that's what they called Pastor's message - is that cute!") We had a wonderful time and Chris was truly happy and proud of our "family."
Yesterday, when Mark and I (Mark came to take us back home) went to the hospital I was met by the dietician who informed me that Pastor Santiago had told her he was going out for lunch and supper so he had not ordered either from the hospital! We were a bit surprised as we had NOT made such plans. But when Pastor gives an order it is obeyed. So off we went. We took him to a place called THE BOARDWALK which is really beautiful (looks like a place called Broadway On The Beach in Myrtle Beach) and ate at Leonardo's where they make pizza as it was made in the BRONX in the good old days...some of you may remember. It was delicious. Chris really enjoyed himself. We were out most of the day and then returned to the hospital.
Mark and I received our orders (from Chris) re: time we should be at the hospital, what he wanted to wear for the trip home, etc., etc. Today, (Sunday) we picked him up and we went to church. His first time at church in six months. (June 3rd would have been 6 months!)
We arrived at church and when Mark wheeled him into the sanctuary, their was a hush and then the presence of the Lord became so powerful that you could almost touch it!!! The congregation began to clap and praise the Lord and ...well you had to have been present to truly appreciate what we experienced. God is truly a wonderful God. After a while we were able to sit and Pastor Neville called Chris, Mark and me up to bid our farewells. Chris spoke and for a minute I thought he was going to preach....remember almost six months....you give a microphone to a preacher....very dangerous thing to do. He spoke very well and we were blessed once more with another strong presence of the Holy Spirit. Pastor Neville preached and as always, he was soooooo anointed and the word was truly from God. Do I sound a bit excited? Well, maybe just a little. I shall miss everyone here. I thank God for having allowed me to meet these wonderful people.
Tomorrow we will leave at 12:30! Dr. Campbell who is accompanying us told us to be at the airport early...no need to have said that..Mark and I had thought about sleeping there tonight!
(Just kidding.) Since Chris will have to undergo more rehabilitation at Helen Hayes Hospital, I think I will continue to blog for just a while longer. Thank you for you interest and prayers. God truly has listened to all of you and He continues to answer.
Keep praying! Bye!
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
ONE MORE FOR THE ROAD!
Today was a beautiful day in many ways. Once more Ebenezer came through for the Santiagos. Pastor C.K., his wife Pastor Benita, Pastor Larryand Marina took Chris and me for another outing. RE: Dr. Campbell's suggestion, we took Chris to Kragga Kamma Game Park. I think Dr. thought we would be gone an hour or two, but after the park we decided, "Hey, why not take a little detour on our way to Aurora and see the city....so we did!
We went sight-seeing and took in many historical sights. We had two Pastors who truly know their history and were great guides. I believe that Dr. Campbell thought we would be gone 2-3 hours. Aha...we returned after 5:00 PM. ooooohh!
Chris had a great time and enjoyed every minute of our exciting experience. Seeing the animals in the wild was really WILD! (no punt intended) I took a lot of pictures, but my camera was not very cooperative. I have posted 1-2 pictures to give you an idea. (sorry...the camera was mean)
When we returned Chris had a bath and went to bed a very happy man.
I will write to you all again in a couple of days...Keep praying...God is listening!
Love & blessings to all from Chris & me.
Saturday, May 17, 2008
I'M BACK!!
Hi there! Did you think I got lost? Many of you have been inquiring about the blog.
Thank you for you concern. Actually, I've been quite busy. I am at the hospital all day...not complaing it makes the day go by very quickly. When I get home (scarey isn't it calling the guest house home? Spooky, even) I shower, read The Word, pray and plop. (Think I sleep? Noooo. It takes a while as I ponder all the events of the day and still think, "I AM IN SOUTH AFRICA!!!"
As I have mentioned before, I am NEVER alone. Ebenezer Centre people are an unusual breed. God has a very special place in heaven for all these people. Complete strangers who've heard about Chris call and offer their support. Remember the woman, June who came to see Chris at Greenacres Hospital, well she found the information which led her to find us. It appears that someone from the U.N. Council in Pretoria, SA was the person who called her about Rev. Santiago!!! Is that weird. Remember Len Roosevelt the gentleman who also came to see Chris at Greenacres? Mr. Roosevelt was called from a radio station in Cape Town, SA to ask him to visit a Rev. Santiago who was ill at the hospital. Those are just two of the many who have been led to us by God.
June introduced me to Judy...that's another story of the many I will share with those of you who are interested. TOOOOOO many to write to you about. Just know that GOD HAS BEEN IN CONTROL!! Is Chris sooo special...obviously to our family and me, to those who really know him, he is...to God he is just His servant whom he has called. God has promised to ...never leave us or foresake us...God is true to His word. Amen? Enough preaching...as you can see I am in love with God. Actually I've made Job 42:5 my personal verse, ie, it was written for me! (look it up)
Chris is getting better each day. His legs and arms are getting stronger, his voice is improving and he has NEVER lost his determination to get well. He is an amazing man. No wonder he chose me!!
FLASH: I know that by now most of you know that we are coming home on 5/26/08! Chris will be admitted to Helen Hayes Hospital for more rehabilitation. I will inquire regarding visiting him as soon as I get there and will let everyone know. For now, please wait until you here from me or one of my sons. I realize that you would like to see him as soon as possible and we will post the news as soon as it becomes available.
Doctor Campbell will be accompanying us. (Another miracle!!) He has made the arrangements for HHH and is looking forward to seeing NY. If the doctor has time, Mark will show him some sights. (Dr. must get back to his hospital asap)
I will try to let you know further events as they develop. For now just remember to keep praying! God is LISTENING!!
Thank you. Love you all very much,
Lali (Essie to others)
Thank you for you concern. Actually, I've been quite busy. I am at the hospital all day...not complaing it makes the day go by very quickly. When I get home (scarey isn't it calling the guest house home? Spooky, even) I shower, read The Word, pray and plop. (Think I sleep? Noooo. It takes a while as I ponder all the events of the day and still think, "I AM IN SOUTH AFRICA!!!"
As I have mentioned before, I am NEVER alone. Ebenezer Centre people are an unusual breed. God has a very special place in heaven for all these people. Complete strangers who've heard about Chris call and offer their support. Remember the woman, June who came to see Chris at Greenacres Hospital, well she found the information which led her to find us. It appears that someone from the U.N. Council in Pretoria, SA was the person who called her about Rev. Santiago!!! Is that weird. Remember Len Roosevelt the gentleman who also came to see Chris at Greenacres? Mr. Roosevelt was called from a radio station in Cape Town, SA to ask him to visit a Rev. Santiago who was ill at the hospital. Those are just two of the many who have been led to us by God.
June introduced me to Judy...that's another story of the many I will share with those of you who are interested. TOOOOOO many to write to you about. Just know that GOD HAS BEEN IN CONTROL!! Is Chris sooo special...obviously to our family and me, to those who really know him, he is...to God he is just His servant whom he has called. God has promised to ...never leave us or foresake us...God is true to His word. Amen? Enough preaching...as you can see I am in love with God. Actually I've made Job 42:5 my personal verse, ie, it was written for me! (look it up)
Chris is getting better each day. His legs and arms are getting stronger, his voice is improving and he has NEVER lost his determination to get well. He is an amazing man. No wonder he chose me!!
FLASH: I know that by now most of you know that we are coming home on 5/26/08! Chris will be admitted to Helen Hayes Hospital for more rehabilitation. I will inquire regarding visiting him as soon as I get there and will let everyone know. For now, please wait until you here from me or one of my sons. I realize that you would like to see him as soon as possible and we will post the news as soon as it becomes available.
Doctor Campbell will be accompanying us. (Another miracle!!) He has made the arrangements for HHH and is looking forward to seeing NY. If the doctor has time, Mark will show him some sights. (Dr. must get back to his hospital asap)
I will try to let you know further events as they develop. For now just remember to keep praying! God is LISTENING!!
Thank you. Love you all very much,
Lali (Essie to others)
Monday, May 5, 2008
Anyone for a "DIP?" I'm ready!!!
Today was by far the most exciting of all days. When I arrived at the hospital Chris was already at O.T. (occupational therapy). He really works hard and his determination is quite obvious. What a guy!! After his session I took him back to his room and he informed me he was going in the pool. "Great," I said. Thinking, NO WAY!! A while later they began to get him ready for the pool. He was excited and I was nervous. I shouldn't have been....
When we got to the pool, a young lady and a young man very gingerly took him off the wheelcheer and just as gingerly placed him in the pool...."Pa' que fue eso!!" He immediately started flapping his "wings" and legs. The two young people began to laugh and exlaimed, "He's swimming and using his arms and legs all by himself!" When they finally realized they could not contain him, they went off to help other people and Chris "OWNED THE POOL!" I took picture after picture and also a video. I don't know how to load the video, but LOOOOOOK at the pictures!! Pretty Cool, eh?
As if that weren't enough...prior to the pool experience, Dr. Campbell asked to see me. I went to his office and he proceded to inform me that this Thursday he will let me know the date when Chris and I will be able to go home. He asked me if there was someone I knew who could attend to him during the flight (a nurse). He asked about the lady who had come with me to our prior meeting; (Marina - our friend from Ebenezer Center and a reg. nurse at Greenacres who'd taken excellent care of Chris during his stay there). I told him I would check with her and I did and she said she would look into it, but she saw no problem!! God continues to be soverign...
Dr. Campbell also informed me that TODAY he would call Helen Hayes Hospital to check on the procedure involved to transport Chris to their facility. (Chris insists he will walk out of Aurora.) In any case, things are looking better and better as God continues to listen to all of the people who are praying for Chris. It appears that the WHOLE world is praying for this very, very humble servant of the Lord. Those of you who know Chris really well, know thatI am speaking the truth.
At the end of the day when I was knitting while he rested, after eating a huge meal (fish,chips-french fries in the US, salad and cranberry-apple juice), I looked up at him and he was looking at me kinda' funny. He said, "I don't know what I would do without you." WOW...pretty cool eh?
WHAT A GUY!!!!!!!
As always continue to pray as it has been all of your prayers which have served to carry us through all this.
Sunday, May 4, 2008
Sight Seeing Tour - No Problem!
Today was a real triumph! Pastor C.K., Marina, Douleen, Cleone and I took Chris for a ride through the city. We followed Marine Drive which is a beautiful road along the coast of Mandela Bay and the Indian Ocean. It was a beautiful day and Chris was in awe!! He loves the ocean and could not stop talking about how beautiful everything was. Please remember he had not seen the "outside world" for almost 5 months, (except for his ride to the Rehab.Hospital) We made a few stops so that he could observe the ocean and the sights for a longer period of time. We also road through Summerstrand where I am staying and which is also along the Indian Ocean and Mandela Bay. This area is where all the big hotels and tourist area are located. It is actually quite beautiful and very busy. There are beautiful buildings and resort areas. We also took him to the guest house where I am staying; (Remember he was only there l/3 evening and on l/5 he was admitted to the hospital). He did remember it though. Nothing wrong with his memory or his brilliant mind. He is unreal. He was giving us pointers as we were on our tour!!! He really is TOOOO MUCH! May God bless him.
We are still looking forward to leaving around the 23rd of May. The doctor will make his final decision this Friday....sooo...all you prayer warriors out there, please get on our knees.
Chris sends his love to everyone and reminds you, "I'LL BE BACK."
We are still looking forward to leaving around the 23rd of May. The doctor will make his final decision this Friday....sooo...all you prayer warriors out there, please get on our knees.
Chris sends his love to everyone and reminds you, "I'LL BE BACK."
Monday, April 28, 2008
COUNT DOWN HAS BEGUN!
Today was a very good day! Chris was almost his old self and feeling very chipper. We talked a lot and he gave me a run down on his O.T. exercises this am. He is doing well and is quite please with himself. He still has a long way to go for complete recovery, but for now he is doing just what if not more, than the doctor ordered. We all very well KNOW that Chris is a fighter!
One of the nurses from I.C.U. at Greenacres Hospital phoned Aurora Rehab. to find out how Chris is doing. She said they all send their love and are praying for his quick return to the U.S. One of the sisters (registered nurse to us), the one who we thought looked like our grandaughter Kristin, stopped by to see Chris and was very excited when she saw he was in "regular" clothes and sitting up in bed! Everyone has taken an obvious interest and caring in Chris; the favor of God!!
Continue to pray for us as we continue to pray for you. Please pray that the 4-6 weeks window - will turn to 3 which is what we are trusting God for. Amen?
Psalms 33:20-21
One of the nurses from I.C.U. at Greenacres Hospital phoned Aurora Rehab. to find out how Chris is doing. She said they all send their love and are praying for his quick return to the U.S. One of the sisters (registered nurse to us), the one who we thought looked like our grandaughter Kristin, stopped by to see Chris and was very excited when she saw he was in "regular" clothes and sitting up in bed! Everyone has taken an obvious interest and caring in Chris; the favor of God!!
Continue to pray for us as we continue to pray for you. Please pray that the 4-6 weeks window - will turn to 3 which is what we are trusting God for. Amen?
Psalms 33:20-21
Friday, April 25, 2008
PROGRESSING...THANK GOD!
Today was Chris' 3rd day at Aurora Rehab. Ctr. He is doing very well and coping with the O.T.therapy. He looks great and is quite happy with himself. Frankly, I am very happy as well. He appears more calm and comfortable. They are feeding him regular food (soft) and that does not appeal to him. Soon, however, he will be on a regular diet. I don't think he will like that either because the food here is quite different from our food back home.
Dr. Campbell gave me a report of a staff meeting that was held yesterday. Present at the meeting was the staff which is working with Chris and their assessment. So far everyone seems to be in agreement that he is making progress and the prognosis for recovery is good. However, Dr. informed me that it will be a long time before Chris makes a full recovery. The staff working with Chris is quite friendly and have taken a liking to Chris already. They are all rooting for Pastor. He will be able to return home withing 4 weeks, perhaps 6.
Rehabilitation will continue once we get home. Those of you who know Chris well know that he is a FIGHTER and with God on his side he is invincible!!
Please continue to pray for God's grace over us all.
So keep praying. God has been good to us always and now is no exception.
Dr. Campbell gave me a report of a staff meeting that was held yesterday. Present at the meeting was the staff which is working with Chris and their assessment. So far everyone seems to be in agreement that he is making progress and the prognosis for recovery is good. However, Dr. informed me that it will be a long time before Chris makes a full recovery. The staff working with Chris is quite friendly and have taken a liking to Chris already. They are all rooting for Pastor. He will be able to return home withing 4 weeks, perhaps 6.
Rehabilitation will continue once we get home. Those of you who know Chris well know that he is a FIGHTER and with God on his side he is invincible!!
Please continue to pray for God's grace over us all.
So keep praying. God has been good to us always and now is no exception.
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
DOESN'T HE LOOK GREAT!!!
MOVIN' ON UP. YEA!
This am I received a phone call from Greenacres Hospital advising me that they were moving Chris to Aurora Hospital sometime this morning. Doulin and I quickly got ready and left, but by
the time we got to the hospital, he had already been transported. After a tearful goodbye to the sisters (nurses), the attendants and everyone else, we left for Aurora.
By the time we arrived Chris had already had breakfast and was in bed. He looked very happy to begin the last leg of our stay here. The doctor arrived very quickly and gave me a run down on what they would be doing for Chris, his medication and how they would help him on his way to recovery. Chris then gave me a list of things he needed...a new jogging suit, sweat pants, more toiletries, etc. Doulin and I quickly obeyed and we were on our way to our shopping spree, something I really dread doing...yeah...I know.
I bought him a really nice jogging suit, sweat pants, sweat shirt, etc. and toiletries. We were soon back at the hospital and by the time we arrived he was already receiving occupational therapy. The therapist appeared to be quite good and pleased with Chris' workout. After the session, Chris and I stayed in the lounge and talked about a lot of things. I also took some pictures. He is happy to be at this hospital and is willing to work at getting better. We are determined to go home as soon as possible. Dr. Campbell, the Director and Founder of the premises came to welcome us and behaved more like an old friend than a doctor.
I stayed with Chris until about 6:00 pm and then went to the Guest House to freshen up and get ready to go to a special service at church .
All in all, it was a great day. Chris is very, very happy and so am I. We continue to give all Praise and Glory to God for his loving care.
Please continue to pray for Chris. Thank you.
the time we got to the hospital, he had already been transported. After a tearful goodbye to the sisters (nurses), the attendants and everyone else, we left for Aurora.
By the time we arrived Chris had already had breakfast and was in bed. He looked very happy to begin the last leg of our stay here. The doctor arrived very quickly and gave me a run down on what they would be doing for Chris, his medication and how they would help him on his way to recovery. Chris then gave me a list of things he needed...a new jogging suit, sweat pants, more toiletries, etc. Doulin and I quickly obeyed and we were on our way to our shopping spree, something I really dread doing...yeah...I know.
I bought him a really nice jogging suit, sweat pants, sweat shirt, etc. and toiletries. We were soon back at the hospital and by the time we arrived he was already receiving occupational therapy. The therapist appeared to be quite good and pleased with Chris' workout. After the session, Chris and I stayed in the lounge and talked about a lot of things. I also took some pictures. He is happy to be at this hospital and is willing to work at getting better. We are determined to go home as soon as possible. Dr. Campbell, the Director and Founder of the premises came to welcome us and behaved more like an old friend than a doctor.
I stayed with Chris until about 6:00 pm and then went to the Guest House to freshen up and get ready to go to a special service at church .
All in all, it was a great day. Chris is very, very happy and so am I. We continue to give all Praise and Glory to God for his loving care.
Please continue to pray for Chris. Thank you.
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
WHAT A DAY!!!!
Today was a day to beat all days! Suffice it to say that the insurance co. reps who've been quite good 'til now had a problem!!! Those of you who know me very well know that I am very calm, cool and collected when someone crosses me. Needless to say, the Accounts Dept. in Greenacres Hospital is phenomenal and were able to take care of the mix-up after trying desperately to iron out the problem for almost 3 hours via phone calls from Africa to Canada to the US.
Soooooo....Chris will be going to Aurora Rehabilitation Hospital tomorrow, 4/21. He will be there according to his doctors, for 3-4 weeks and then we'll go HOME!
God has been awesome!! I am looking forward to sharing my testimony with with anyone who will listen. God has used the doctors, the nurses, the attendants, the Hospital Administration, other patients and perfect strangers to assist us! Ebenezer Church: Pastor Neville and Pastor Roji (his wife), all the other Pastors and their wives, members of the church and the church in general are an incredible group of God's Chosen People. I praise God for them.
They've coordinated a couple of ladies to keep me company and drive me to and from the hospital or anywhere I need to go (Douleen, Loretta). Lynn, the lady who owns the Beach House where I am staying has become like family. I am preparing a list of everyone who has touched my life during my stay here. I intend to always thank God for these wonderful people.
God is truly and has been my life-long companion. You all already know I'm His spoiled brat!
Soooooo....Chris will be going to Aurora Rehabilitation Hospital tomorrow, 4/21. He will be there according to his doctors, for 3-4 weeks and then we'll go HOME!
God has been awesome!! I am looking forward to sharing my testimony with with anyone who will listen. God has used the doctors, the nurses, the attendants, the Hospital Administration, other patients and perfect strangers to assist us! Ebenezer Church: Pastor Neville and Pastor Roji (his wife), all the other Pastors and their wives, members of the church and the church in general are an incredible group of God's Chosen People. I praise God for them.
They've coordinated a couple of ladies to keep me company and drive me to and from the hospital or anywhere I need to go (Douleen, Loretta). Lynn, the lady who owns the Beach House where I am staying has become like family. I am preparing a list of everyone who has touched my life during my stay here. I intend to always thank God for these wonderful people.
God is truly and has been my life-long companion. You all already know I'm His spoiled brat!
Saturday, April 19, 2008
105th DAY - BUT WHOSE COUNTING?
This morning's visit went well. The trachea has been removed and the doctors are allowing the small opening to close naturally; He only has a covering over it. He has also been taken off oxygen completely. By Tuesday he should be at AURORA REHABILITATION CENTER. The doctors believe he will be there 3-4 weeks...then home!
It is very comforting to see how very happy the doctors, the nurses, the attendants and the administrators are with regard to Chris' recovery. Everyone has been extremely supportive and my friends at Ebenezer Centre take turns "Shlepping"(?) me back and forth. I am quite the celebrity (?). I've always said I am God's special, spoiled brat! I now have no doubt. God has truly been awesome. I have quite a list of testimonies which I will share when we get back.
The weather is changing and it is getting very cold. (Marisel...leather coat??) It is also raining and quite windy.
Please continue to pray. Regards to everyone.
Lali
It is very comforting to see how very happy the doctors, the nurses, the attendants and the administrators are with regard to Chris' recovery. Everyone has been extremely supportive and my friends at Ebenezer Centre take turns "Shlepping"(?) me back and forth. I am quite the celebrity (?). I've always said I am God's special, spoiled brat! I now have no doubt. God has truly been awesome. I have quite a list of testimonies which I will share when we get back.
The weather is changing and it is getting very cold. (Marisel...leather coat??) It is also raining and quite windy.
Please continue to pray. Regards to everyone.
Lali
Friday, April 18, 2008
LOOKING GOOD!
Marisel has gone home and I am left alone. Don't anyone worry...Ebenezer Centre is taking GOOD care of me. I am really never alone, Praise God!
Today was a very good day. When I got to the hospital this am the nurse showed me that they have taken Chris off oxygen altogether! They will remove the metal trachea tomorrow and then he will be able to speak clearly!!! Very exciting news. He appeared very happy and he looked great! He is eating mashed potatoes(those of you who KNOW Chris know that he dislikes potatoes! (musn't use the word hate) He is also eating mashed sweet p0tatoes, jelly (jello) and custard. He is not a happy camper. I made some chicken soup (found cilantro - praise God) Marisel, I did, I did! They sell it at Woolworth! In any case, the soup turned out great and I took him only the broth. He took several sips, but the nurse told me that if it had herbs, it would not be wise to give it to him as it could irritate his throat. Well, so much for the sopita. I will try again in a couple of days.
In the pm when I went to visit him, I got there a little - sopita making, he was already in his wheelchair and all "decked out" to go out! So off we went, Doulin, Desmond and I. Chris told us where he wanted to go and what he wanted to see. It is really encouraging to see him doing so well. After a while he told us he was ready to go back upstairs and we all obeyed.
Once we were upstairs and they had made him comfortable in his bed, he reminded me to pack his jogging suit, bathing suit, the cards, letters and pictures hanging in his room. He is really something else!!
So, family, please continue to pray as God is answering all of our prayers.
Marisel, thank you for everything!
Today was a very good day. When I got to the hospital this am the nurse showed me that they have taken Chris off oxygen altogether! They will remove the metal trachea tomorrow and then he will be able to speak clearly!!! Very exciting news. He appeared very happy and he looked great! He is eating mashed potatoes(those of you who KNOW Chris know that he dislikes potatoes! (musn't use the word hate) He is also eating mashed sweet p0tatoes, jelly (jello) and custard. He is not a happy camper. I made some chicken soup (found cilantro - praise God) Marisel, I did, I did! They sell it at Woolworth! In any case, the soup turned out great and I took him only the broth. He took several sips, but the nurse told me that if it had herbs, it would not be wise to give it to him as it could irritate his throat. Well, so much for the sopita. I will try again in a couple of days.
In the pm when I went to visit him, I got there a little - sopita making, he was already in his wheelchair and all "decked out" to go out! So off we went, Doulin, Desmond and I. Chris told us where he wanted to go and what he wanted to see. It is really encouraging to see him doing so well. After a while he told us he was ready to go back upstairs and we all obeyed.
Once we were upstairs and they had made him comfortable in his bed, he reminded me to pack his jogging suit, bathing suit, the cards, letters and pictures hanging in his room. He is really something else!!
So, family, please continue to pray as God is answering all of our prayers.
Marisel, thank you for everything!
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
All The Steps Of the Righteous Are Ordered by Him
Today was a great day! God is faithful! Pastor looked wonderful! Just like himself!
Last night we prayed that God would speak crystal clear as to what he wants us to do in regards to Pastor's rehabilitation. So clear it would be as if there was writing on the wall. We called on the name of the Lord because he is our Helper. He promised to respond, so we believe he would. This morning when we woke up doubt try to creep in, but in the name of Jesus, we rebuked it and it was gone.
When we got to the hospital dad informed us that Dr. Campbell, the Director of Aurora, had been in to meet him. He left his card for mom to call with any questions. Okay Lord, here we go with Aurora again. Aurora is the best rehabilitation facility here in Port Elizabeth.
In addition, Sister June (remember her? the elderly women who comes to pray for dad) and her friend Judy came to visit dad this morning. June's daughter, Laura, has offerred to volunteer and do Occupational Therapy with dad. Laura came to meet dad today and was amazed at his progress. We got kicked out of dad's room because the head Sister said too many visitors. Ohhh, that didn't go well with me. I had to pray... Lord, Jesus hold my tongue. But I submitted to the dumb rule and exited the ICU on my last day visiting with dad and waited my turn. Lovely!
Mom came out to relieve me and I went back in. Mike Santiago was encouraging dad and blessing him with the Word of God. Praise God! Mike loves the Lord soooo much! He still carries around one of those minature new testament Bibles (remember them?).
June has been trying to have mom and myself over for lunch since I got here. Today we decided we'd go to lunch with June and Judy. (Mike and Judy came with us). Judy decided to host the lunch at her house. Mom came back in to say good-bye to dad and she said, "You are not going to believe what just happened. Judy's house is less than one block away from Aurora." June had been inviting us for some time and it hadn't worked out and today of all days was the day we finally were able to coordinate the luncheon; The same day we asked God to confirm what He wants us to do about Aurora. Judy told mom that she is more than welcome to stay at her house in between the visits with dad. We went to Judy's house and we had a really good time. It was enjoyable, very relaxing and the food was pretty good. We had homemade sconces and they were delicious. Yummy! We were able to meet Judy's family and the luncheon gave mom a good sense of fellowship and friendship. After lunch, we drove straight to Aurora, which is about five houses away from Judy's house.
At the Aurora Hospital, Dr. Campbell sat down with mom and me and answered all of mom's questions regarding Aurora. The first thing he told her was that she has no restrictions on visiting hours. Praise God! That was one of her HUGE concerns. (When we did the walk-thru we were told visiting hours were twice a day in the afternoon for a half hour only). Dr. Campbell explained it would be better for dad to come to Aurora as soon as Dr. Britz releases him, which could be as early as next Tuesday. At Aurora they would work on strengthening his muscles and getting him ready to be able to go home on a commercial first class flight. He suggested that the first class flight seat is more comfortable than having dad on a stretcher considering the lengthy flight. He said we should discuss this information with the family. Our response was that we need to talk to Mark. So he said, "please do" and suggested Mark call him with any questions. Dr. Campbell said it can be anywhere from 2 to 4 weeks before Pastor is ready to go home on a commercial flight.
We went back to the hospital and we couldn't wait to talk to dad and let him know all that happened. We told him everything and he said, "we'll give it a shot". Pastor Neville and Pastor Roji arrived to give Pastor a word. Pastor Neville had visited last night and said he needed to speak to dad, but because there were so many people he said he would talk to him at the next day's visit. Pastor Neville wanted to encourage dad to stay and go to Aurora. Pastor Neville feels that we risk aborting what God has deposited in the Pastor if we prematurely leave without dad being strong enough. God is speaking. We want to be sure to be in alignment to God's will for dad's life. As Mark said, "we are closer today than yesterday" and we continue to look forward to the end that will soon be here.
At the evening visit, Mike Santiago ministered again to Pastor providing scriptures. Pastor listened soaking it all into his spirit. He looked blessed. Before we left for the evening Pastor started giving me instructions again for the May calendar and letting me know that he would be back for VBS, Rock the Block and the Children's Parade. He asked me a lot of questions regarding the construction, Clinton and the church. He's back!! I did my best to answer all of his questions and to write down all that he has requested to take back and share.
Tonight is my last night. Pastor Roji has assured me that she will ensure that mom is taken care of by Darlene, Loretta and herself. Allen and Ruvena have also committed to keeping an eye on mom and to be with her and dad until they return back to the states. Allen said the Lord had placed that on his heart and they will follow through.
Please continue to pray. Thank you!
Last night we prayed that God would speak crystal clear as to what he wants us to do in regards to Pastor's rehabilitation. So clear it would be as if there was writing on the wall. We called on the name of the Lord because he is our Helper. He promised to respond, so we believe he would. This morning when we woke up doubt try to creep in, but in the name of Jesus, we rebuked it and it was gone.
When we got to the hospital dad informed us that Dr. Campbell, the Director of Aurora, had been in to meet him. He left his card for mom to call with any questions. Okay Lord, here we go with Aurora again. Aurora is the best rehabilitation facility here in Port Elizabeth.
In addition, Sister June (remember her? the elderly women who comes to pray for dad) and her friend Judy came to visit dad this morning. June's daughter, Laura, has offerred to volunteer and do Occupational Therapy with dad. Laura came to meet dad today and was amazed at his progress. We got kicked out of dad's room because the head Sister said too many visitors. Ohhh, that didn't go well with me. I had to pray... Lord, Jesus hold my tongue. But I submitted to the dumb rule and exited the ICU on my last day visiting with dad and waited my turn. Lovely!
Mom came out to relieve me and I went back in. Mike Santiago was encouraging dad and blessing him with the Word of God. Praise God! Mike loves the Lord soooo much! He still carries around one of those minature new testament Bibles (remember them?).
June has been trying to have mom and myself over for lunch since I got here. Today we decided we'd go to lunch with June and Judy. (Mike and Judy came with us). Judy decided to host the lunch at her house. Mom came back in to say good-bye to dad and she said, "You are not going to believe what just happened. Judy's house is less than one block away from Aurora." June had been inviting us for some time and it hadn't worked out and today of all days was the day we finally were able to coordinate the luncheon; The same day we asked God to confirm what He wants us to do about Aurora. Judy told mom that she is more than welcome to stay at her house in between the visits with dad. We went to Judy's house and we had a really good time. It was enjoyable, very relaxing and the food was pretty good. We had homemade sconces and they were delicious. Yummy! We were able to meet Judy's family and the luncheon gave mom a good sense of fellowship and friendship. After lunch, we drove straight to Aurora, which is about five houses away from Judy's house.
At the Aurora Hospital, Dr. Campbell sat down with mom and me and answered all of mom's questions regarding Aurora. The first thing he told her was that she has no restrictions on visiting hours. Praise God! That was one of her HUGE concerns. (When we did the walk-thru we were told visiting hours were twice a day in the afternoon for a half hour only). Dr. Campbell explained it would be better for dad to come to Aurora as soon as Dr. Britz releases him, which could be as early as next Tuesday. At Aurora they would work on strengthening his muscles and getting him ready to be able to go home on a commercial first class flight. He suggested that the first class flight seat is more comfortable than having dad on a stretcher considering the lengthy flight. He said we should discuss this information with the family. Our response was that we need to talk to Mark. So he said, "please do" and suggested Mark call him with any questions. Dr. Campbell said it can be anywhere from 2 to 4 weeks before Pastor is ready to go home on a commercial flight.
We went back to the hospital and we couldn't wait to talk to dad and let him know all that happened. We told him everything and he said, "we'll give it a shot". Pastor Neville and Pastor Roji arrived to give Pastor a word. Pastor Neville had visited last night and said he needed to speak to dad, but because there were so many people he said he would talk to him at the next day's visit. Pastor Neville wanted to encourage dad to stay and go to Aurora. Pastor Neville feels that we risk aborting what God has deposited in the Pastor if we prematurely leave without dad being strong enough. God is speaking. We want to be sure to be in alignment to God's will for dad's life. As Mark said, "we are closer today than yesterday" and we continue to look forward to the end that will soon be here.
At the evening visit, Mike Santiago ministered again to Pastor providing scriptures. Pastor listened soaking it all into his spirit. He looked blessed. Before we left for the evening Pastor started giving me instructions again for the May calendar and letting me know that he would be back for VBS, Rock the Block and the Children's Parade. He asked me a lot of questions regarding the construction, Clinton and the church. He's back!! I did my best to answer all of his questions and to write down all that he has requested to take back and share.
Tonight is my last night. Pastor Roji has assured me that she will ensure that mom is taken care of by Darlene, Loretta and herself. Allen and Ruvena have also committed to keeping an eye on mom and to be with her and dad until they return back to the states. Allen said the Lord had placed that on his heart and they will follow through.
Please continue to pray. Thank you!
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
Hallelujah!
Today Pastor looked great! When we arrived he was eagerly waiting. He was ready in his chair and decided to praise the Lord with a Hallelujah! Praise the Lord! Highest praise to our Lord for his unfailing faithfulness.
Pastor was on a role today asking questions pertaining to the church, reminding me what we need to do and asking me to let the Pastors know this or that. So, must do as I'm told. Made the calls, talked to the people and spread the news. He is back!!!
We had the most visitors than I've seen in the past 14 days. They all arrived today at the same time. Rev. Mike and Judy Santiago, Allen and Ruvena, Debbie, Pastor Neville, mom and myself. WOW! Full house. Solo falto recoger la ofrenda.
Pastor got a word from Pastor Neville (Isaiah 40:28-31) and Mike shared Psalm 9:10.
Please continue to pray as we are at a crucial point and the Santiagos need to make decisions concerning the next step after Pastor is released from the hospital. In addition, we need the funds for the transport to come in ASAP. So spread, spread, spread the word...
"The Lord your God is with you, He is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you and he will quiet you with His love and He will rejoice over you with singing." Zephaniah 3:17
God bless you!
Pastor was on a role today asking questions pertaining to the church, reminding me what we need to do and asking me to let the Pastors know this or that. So, must do as I'm told. Made the calls, talked to the people and spread the news. He is back!!!
We had the most visitors than I've seen in the past 14 days. They all arrived today at the same time. Rev. Mike and Judy Santiago, Allen and Ruvena, Debbie, Pastor Neville, mom and myself. WOW! Full house. Solo falto recoger la ofrenda.
Pastor got a word from Pastor Neville (Isaiah 40:28-31) and Mike shared Psalm 9:10.
Please continue to pray as we are at a crucial point and the Santiagos need to make decisions concerning the next step after Pastor is released from the hospital. In addition, we need the funds for the transport to come in ASAP. So spread, spread, spread the word...
"The Lord your God is with you, He is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you and he will quiet you with His love and He will rejoice over you with singing." Zephaniah 3:17
God bless you!
Monday, April 14, 2008
We have OVERCOME...
Today was the big day... by the time we got to the hospital dad had the metal trachea in his throat. Praise the Lord! Marina (the sister assigned to dad today - another answered prayer) covered the metal trachea and had him say, "hello Lali" and so he did. He seemed well and happy that he had overcome this hurdle.
We went to Aurora to check it out and were not very impressed. Dr. Britz believes dad will be ready to move to Aurora Hospital within two weeks. We believe if the doctors release dad to go to Aurora for rehabilitation, we just as well should bring him home and let him go to Helen Hayes Rehabilitation Hospital in New York. Dad is adamant about not going home on a medical transport and being able to walk before going back to the states. However, we don't think it is wise to prolong the return any longer. We had this discussion with dad today and it became a little stressful, so we determined we would not say anything at the next visit. Well, that wasn't hard to do at all because he slept through the entire visit. God is so smart. As I've asked before, please continue to pray for Godly wisdom and direction. Once again, Brenda you know what to do. We need Godly wisdom!
Tomorrow Mike & Judy Santiago (missionaries to Zimbabwe and long time friends of Pastor & Lali) will be here to visit with them. That will be nice for dad to have a break from me and mom.
We leave you with... "Great is the Lord, and most worthy of praise." (Psalm 48:1)
We went to Aurora to check it out and were not very impressed. Dr. Britz believes dad will be ready to move to Aurora Hospital within two weeks. We believe if the doctors release dad to go to Aurora for rehabilitation, we just as well should bring him home and let him go to Helen Hayes Rehabilitation Hospital in New York. Dad is adamant about not going home on a medical transport and being able to walk before going back to the states. However, we don't think it is wise to prolong the return any longer. We had this discussion with dad today and it became a little stressful, so we determined we would not say anything at the next visit. Well, that wasn't hard to do at all because he slept through the entire visit. God is so smart. As I've asked before, please continue to pray for Godly wisdom and direction. Once again, Brenda you know what to do. We need Godly wisdom!
Tomorrow Mike & Judy Santiago (missionaries to Zimbabwe and long time friends of Pastor & Lali) will be here to visit with them. That will be nice for dad to have a break from me and mom.
We leave you with... "Great is the Lord, and most worthy of praise." (Psalm 48:1)
Sunday, April 13, 2008
Have a seat...
After church, we went to visit dad today and he appeared to be tired. He apparently did not have a good night sleep. He had been in his chair for sometime, so we asked for him to be put back into his bed so he could relax. The physical therpaist came in and she did her usual routine with dad. She was excited to show us that dad is able to sit up and hold his back up without assistance. The therapist had to help him into position, but after doing so he was able to remain seated for a reasonable amount of time. Excellent progress!
He was tired and slept a lot, so we told the nurse we did not want to take him out at the 3pm visit because we wanted to be sure he was well rested for his procedure tommorow. The evening visit was better; he was himself and was well rested. We continued our reading of Ezekiel (now chapter 21) and as we read along he interjected.
We shared with dad the scriptures Pastor Neville fed the church today:
Pray, tommorow is our big day! We are believing for good things. We'll keep you posted!
Blessings!
He was tired and slept a lot, so we told the nurse we did not want to take him out at the 3pm visit because we wanted to be sure he was well rested for his procedure tommorow. The evening visit was better; he was himself and was well rested. We continued our reading of Ezekiel (now chapter 21) and as we read along he interjected.
We shared with dad the scriptures Pastor Neville fed the church today:
Isaiah 40:28-31
"My food," said Jesus, "is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work." John 4:34
"Jesus replied to them, "My Father is working right now, and so am I." John 5:17Pray, tommorow is our big day! We are believing for good things. We'll keep you posted!
Blessings!
Saturday, April 12, 2008
Making our needs known...
Hello Santiago family! Grateful! Grateful! Grateful! We are grateful for God's faithfulness thus far and we thank him for his continual faithfulness towards us ALL.
Dad is doing well and as you all know, Monday is the big day as the for tracchi will be removed. There seems to be as I said earlier, a little concern, apprehension, etc. However, we believe in the power of prayer and PRAYER has been the substance that has carried the Santiagos for the past 97 days. So as Bren said, we will pray, pray, pray and pray some more. Thank you for your prayers because as mom says we can feel them. And as I would say, we need them. We are all human and anyone outside of their "normal life" for 97 days would find it difficult. So, although we see the end coming and soon believe dad will be leaving South Africa in a matter of weeks, lets pray that they may perservere and endure until they get to the finish line. Many decisions will need to be made in the next couple of weeks, so we need God's wisdom. God's wisdom!!
Dad is amazing. He reminded us today not to be late for church tomorrow. We got to church late last week and missed the worship! Last Monday Mark said "You can't miss the worship!!!". Like Father, like son! We will get to church on time tommorow I promise!! I won't talk to mom while we are in the car, so I can focus on the signs. We'll let you know how it goes. Stay tuned!
Today, Dad asked me when I was leaving. Ugh! I said Thursday and he opened his eyes wide. I said, Monday they take the tracchi out, Tuesday you need to speak to me and Wednesday you can give me instructions and say good-bye and Thursday I am on my way. He said okay!
Mom and I have had some great times in prayer as we pray for ALL the Santiagos. We believe the plans God has for them are for GOOD and we believe it will come to fruition in each of their lives soon, in the name of Jesus.
We drove to Aurora Rehabilitation Hospital to see how far it is from Green Acres Hospital (it is about 15 minutes further up from the hospital - down a valley & then up a valley and then a turn here and there and you're there. "Voila!" It is far from Hobie Beach! We'll keep you posted!
By the way... today we had a disgusting dessert pecan tart with ice cream as our dinner. Gross! Pray for our stomachs - they don't have Tums or Peptobismol.
Lots of love! Marisel & Mom
God Bless!
Dad is doing well and as you all know, Monday is the big day as the for tracchi will be removed. There seems to be as I said earlier, a little concern, apprehension, etc. However, we believe in the power of prayer and PRAYER has been the substance that has carried the Santiagos for the past 97 days. So as Bren said, we will pray, pray, pray and pray some more. Thank you for your prayers because as mom says we can feel them. And as I would say, we need them. We are all human and anyone outside of their "normal life" for 97 days would find it difficult. So, although we see the end coming and soon believe dad will be leaving South Africa in a matter of weeks, lets pray that they may perservere and endure until they get to the finish line. Many decisions will need to be made in the next couple of weeks, so we need God's wisdom. God's wisdom!!
Dad is amazing. He reminded us today not to be late for church tomorrow. We got to church late last week and missed the worship! Last Monday Mark said "You can't miss the worship!!!". Like Father, like son! We will get to church on time tommorow I promise!! I won't talk to mom while we are in the car, so I can focus on the signs. We'll let you know how it goes. Stay tuned!
Today, Dad asked me when I was leaving. Ugh! I said Thursday and he opened his eyes wide. I said, Monday they take the tracchi out, Tuesday you need to speak to me and Wednesday you can give me instructions and say good-bye and Thursday I am on my way. He said okay!
Mom and I have had some great times in prayer as we pray for ALL the Santiagos. We believe the plans God has for them are for GOOD and we believe it will come to fruition in each of their lives soon, in the name of Jesus.
We drove to Aurora Rehabilitation Hospital to see how far it is from Green Acres Hospital (it is about 15 minutes further up from the hospital - down a valley & then up a valley and then a turn here and there and you're there. "Voila!" It is far from Hobie Beach! We'll keep you posted!
By the way... today we had a disgusting dessert pecan tart with ice cream as our dinner. Gross! Pray for our stomachs - they don't have Tums or Peptobismol.
Lots of love! Marisel & Mom
God Bless!
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
Banana Yogurt Anyone?
Tuesday, 4/8/08
On Tuesday we came in and found dad in a chair with his glasses and his Bible open to the book of Ezekiel. Praise God!
He was finally able to have yogurt yesterday and unfortunately they only had strawberry yogurt. Dad said it was alright, but not his first choice, he wanted banana (they didn't have any).
Dr. Britz spoke with the therapist and they increased his PT to three times a day. We stayed and the therapist showed mom and myself how to do the PT with dad to ensure he gets an intensive PT workout for the day. We took him outside in the afternoon and he enjoyed God's beautiful creation (it felt like fall). You've got to see; all the sisters in the ICU love to see dad in his wheelchair, his shirt and his glasses strolling down the ward on his way out. They are so happy that he is progressing so well. Praise be to God!!
In the evening dad initiated the PT exercises and we followed suit. In addition, dad had us read chapters 2 - 6 of Ezekiel. We talked about Ezekiel's obedience to God inspite of how bizzare His requests sounded (how many of us would lay still on our left side for 390 days and then switch to the opposite side and lay for an additional 40 days??).
Wednesday, 4/9/08
Today we got to the hospital and we were greeted with positive news. Dr. Britz and Dr. Sterns have agreed that on Monday they're going to remove the tracchi and put in a metal tracchi. We anticipate that dad will do well. However, dad seems a little apprehensive, so AGAIN I call on our prayer warriors (Brenda you know what to do) to pray him through.
Marina (one of the sisters) shared with us today that the dietician specified that Pastor Santiago has to have banana yogurt. If that is what he wants, that is what he should get. So, somehow, someway, someone went to buy the yogurt and guess what dad had today to eat? Banana yogurt and he said it was goooood! He did let us know that he wanted rice and beans and a shower. Soon enough!!
We took him outside again today and dad actually got a chance to catch some rays. It was pretty HOT today here in SA... I still don't have sunglasses here.
In conclusion, read the book of Ezekiel with us... sometimes we think submitting to what God requires of us is difficult, well thank the Lord that he never asked us to lay tied up on our side for 390 days. I believe it is written that we can do all things with God who strengthens me. Amen! Continue to pray for wisdom for the Santiago family, that God will lead them in the decisions that are best for dad as he prepares to return home.
On Tuesday we came in and found dad in a chair with his glasses and his Bible open to the book of Ezekiel. Praise God!
He was finally able to have yogurt yesterday and unfortunately they only had strawberry yogurt. Dad said it was alright, but not his first choice, he wanted banana (they didn't have any).
Dr. Britz spoke with the therapist and they increased his PT to three times a day. We stayed and the therapist showed mom and myself how to do the PT with dad to ensure he gets an intensive PT workout for the day. We took him outside in the afternoon and he enjoyed God's beautiful creation (it felt like fall). You've got to see; all the sisters in the ICU love to see dad in his wheelchair, his shirt and his glasses strolling down the ward on his way out. They are so happy that he is progressing so well. Praise be to God!!
In the evening dad initiated the PT exercises and we followed suit. In addition, dad had us read chapters 2 - 6 of Ezekiel. We talked about Ezekiel's obedience to God inspite of how bizzare His requests sounded (how many of us would lay still on our left side for 390 days and then switch to the opposite side and lay for an additional 40 days??).
Wednesday, 4/9/08
Today we got to the hospital and we were greeted with positive news. Dr. Britz and Dr. Sterns have agreed that on Monday they're going to remove the tracchi and put in a metal tracchi. We anticipate that dad will do well. However, dad seems a little apprehensive, so AGAIN I call on our prayer warriors (Brenda you know what to do) to pray him through.
Marina (one of the sisters) shared with us today that the dietician specified that Pastor Santiago has to have banana yogurt. If that is what he wants, that is what he should get. So, somehow, someway, someone went to buy the yogurt and guess what dad had today to eat? Banana yogurt and he said it was goooood! He did let us know that he wanted rice and beans and a shower. Soon enough!!
We took him outside again today and dad actually got a chance to catch some rays. It was pretty HOT today here in SA... I still don't have sunglasses here.
In conclusion, read the book of Ezekiel with us... sometimes we think submitting to what God requires of us is difficult, well thank the Lord that he never asked us to lay tied up on our side for 390 days. I believe it is written that we can do all things with God who strengthens me. Amen! Continue to pray for wisdom for the Santiago family, that God will lead them in the decisions that are best for dad as he prepares to return home.
Monday, April 7, 2008
Jelly? or Jello?
Today dad was still suffering the affects of the dumb sedative they gave him on Saturday night to sleep. Yeah he slept, straight through to Sunday afternoon and still groggy today. He didn't want to do anything, so we called it lazy Monday. Everyone is entitled, right? Anyway... Dr. Stern suggested they start dad on some jelly and custard. Gross! Dad said NO to the custard and reluctantly yes to the jelly (which is Jello to us). He was able to take it and swallow it without a problem. Yeah! Praise God... progress! This is very, very good and extremely important as they look towards eventually transitioning dad over to the metal trachi.
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Met with both doctors today, who both were glad to know mom has no more children. Dr. Stern was glad to see mom inside the office as oppose to sitting in the waiting room. Both doc's are positive about the progress and dad's continual recuperation. Dr. Britz plans to be present when stern does the removal of the trachi in the future. We've all decided that dad needs more physical therapy. The Santiago boys were great at that stuff and since they've left dad is not getting his "extra" dosage of PT. BUT, we've already put dad on warning and tommorow we start a no regiment and additional PT again.
Pastor Neville said that the Lord shared with them (his Pastoral Staff) this morning that he must come and speak a word to dad everyday. Praise God! Answered prayer! We were concerned dad had not gotten spiritual manna (sermon, teaching, etc.) in several months, so we are grateful to God for moving Pastor Neville and his team to be the providers of the manna for the next couple of days.
As for the driving... have you ever driven with mom as a passenger on regular roads? Okay! now imagine driving with her as a passenger here in South Africa. Must I say anymore? I've been down the wrong side of the road, made the wrong turn, made u-turns, missed the exit, gotten lost... what haven't I done??
In conclusion, "Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, 'The LORD is my portion; therefore I will wait for him'. The LORD is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him..." (Lamentations 3:22-25)
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Met with both doctors today, who both were glad to know mom has no more children. Dr. Stern was glad to see mom inside the office as oppose to sitting in the waiting room. Both doc's are positive about the progress and dad's continual recuperation. Dr. Britz plans to be present when stern does the removal of the trachi in the future. We've all decided that dad needs more physical therapy. The Santiago boys were great at that stuff and since they've left dad is not getting his "extra" dosage of PT. BUT, we've already put dad on warning and tommorow we start a no regiment and additional PT again.
Pastor Neville said that the Lord shared with them (his Pastoral Staff) this morning that he must come and speak a word to dad everyday. Praise God! Answered prayer! We were concerned dad had not gotten spiritual manna (sermon, teaching, etc.) in several months, so we are grateful to God for moving Pastor Neville and his team to be the providers of the manna for the next couple of days.
As for the driving... have you ever driven with mom as a passenger on regular roads? Okay! now imagine driving with her as a passenger here in South Africa. Must I say anymore? I've been down the wrong side of the road, made the wrong turn, made u-turns, missed the exit, gotten lost... what haven't I done??
In conclusion, "Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, 'The LORD is my portion; therefore I will wait for him'. The LORD is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him..." (Lamentations 3:22-25)
Sunday, April 6, 2008
I'm listening...
Today was way too cold to take dad out. It was extremely windy and the temperature has dropped drastically. I don't know if it is autumn or winter here, but either way I don't have the appropriate clothing.
We are so excited to report that dad told us today that he was listening to God. Yep! The big guy upstairs is talking to the big guy down here. Praise God! Dad did NOT share what he has said yet, but he did say He is speaking. Hallelujah!
The lip reading thing is getting pretty comical because we can't understand him AT ALL!!! You can almost hear the sounds of the words as he shapes them with his lips. And even with that, we still have difficulty understanding him. We've come to the conclusion that mom and I would lose at charades. I think dad is so frustrated with our inability to read lips; Today he told us that we should do a skit on lip reading because we are so "good" at it. Sarcasm, sarcasm, sarcasm!
Almost forgot... today Pastor Neville preached on Luke 2 and Simeon. Simeon was expecting to see the Messiah before he died. Simeon believed that God would allow him to see the fulfillment of his vision before his death. Pastor Neville reminded us when God puts a vision in us and we are expecting, we must push with God towards it regardless of the circumstances. We took this word and shared it with dad and reminded dad that he is a man of vision and he too must push towards the accomplishment of the portion of the vision that corresponds to him. Amen! So we declare, just as Simeon, dad will not die, but will live to fulfill the purposes for which God has created him.
We are so excited to report that dad told us today that he was listening to God. Yep! The big guy upstairs is talking to the big guy down here. Praise God! Dad did NOT share what he has said yet, but he did say He is speaking. Hallelujah!
The lip reading thing is getting pretty comical because we can't understand him AT ALL!!! You can almost hear the sounds of the words as he shapes them with his lips. And even with that, we still have difficulty understanding him. We've come to the conclusion that mom and I would lose at charades. I think dad is so frustrated with our inability to read lips; Today he told us that we should do a skit on lip reading because we are so "good" at it. Sarcasm, sarcasm, sarcasm!
Almost forgot... today Pastor Neville preached on Luke 2 and Simeon. Simeon was expecting to see the Messiah before he died. Simeon believed that God would allow him to see the fulfillment of his vision before his death. Pastor Neville reminded us when God puts a vision in us and we are expecting, we must push with God towards it regardless of the circumstances. We took this word and shared it with dad and reminded dad that he is a man of vision and he too must push towards the accomplishment of the portion of the vision that corresponds to him. Amen! So we declare, just as Simeon, dad will not die, but will live to fulfill the purposes for which God has created him.
Saturday, April 5, 2008
Happy Birthday Mark!!!
First and foremost, mommy and pop want to wish Mark a Happy Blessed Birthday!
In the first picture is a sister whose Pastor received a call from someone in Pretoria (capital of South Africa) to have someone visit a Pastor from New York who was ill in the hospital in Port Elizabeth. Her name is June and she's visited dad several times. The other gentlemen in the picture is an ICU registered nurse who happens to be a Christian and has become quite fond of dad (he wants to accompany dad to NY when he leaves). His name is Desmond and he is dad's personal barber while in the hospital. Dad also refers to him as his driver.
We have declared that God has been speaking and continues to speak to dad daily! Before we went to the hospital we prayed that God would do anything he desired to speak into Pastor's life today.
At the first visit, Allen reminded dad to be steadfast on the goal. Amen! God speaking.
At the second visit, we were able to take dad out again! He really likes going outside. The best part of the day was that it was overcast and cloudy and we were outside with dad and all of a sudden the sun broke through the clouds and shone upon him. (We were all able to see it!) June during her visit outside with us reminded dad to remain steadfast. When we went back inside, the sun hid itself again. Unanimously we all felt God allowed his sun to shine upon dad as a gift.
At the third visit, we went through the entire process of the fundraising and communications with the SED. God used mom to speak words of encouragement to dad and herself. We reminded dad that God did speak today through the sun and the visitors. Praise God!
Keep praying! Mom does not want to take dad home until the trachi is removed and dad has a few days to adjust to that change. Then we can schedule the transport. Help us pray that it will happen as soon as God deems possible.
God gave us John 15 to share with dad so we read the scriptures and prayed it over him this evening before we exited. "If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you." Amen!
In the first picture is a sister whose Pastor received a call from someone in Pretoria (capital of South Africa) to have someone visit a Pastor from New York who was ill in the hospital in Port Elizabeth. Her name is June and she's visited dad several times. The other gentlemen in the picture is an ICU registered nurse who happens to be a Christian and has become quite fond of dad (he wants to accompany dad to NY when he leaves). His name is Desmond and he is dad's personal barber while in the hospital. Dad also refers to him as his driver.
We have declared that God has been speaking and continues to speak to dad daily! Before we went to the hospital we prayed that God would do anything he desired to speak into Pastor's life today.
At the first visit, Allen reminded dad to be steadfast on the goal. Amen! God speaking.
At the second visit, we were able to take dad out again! He really likes going outside. The best part of the day was that it was overcast and cloudy and we were outside with dad and all of a sudden the sun broke through the clouds and shone upon him. (We were all able to see it!) June during her visit outside with us reminded dad to remain steadfast. When we went back inside, the sun hid itself again. Unanimously we all felt God allowed his sun to shine upon dad as a gift.
At the third visit, we went through the entire process of the fundraising and communications with the SED. God used mom to speak words of encouragement to dad and herself. We reminded dad that God did speak today through the sun and the visitors. Praise God!
Keep praying! Mom does not want to take dad home until the trachi is removed and dad has a few days to adjust to that change. Then we can schedule the transport. Help us pray that it will happen as soon as God deems possible.
God gave us John 15 to share with dad so we read the scriptures and prayed it over him this evening before we exited. "If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you." Amen!
Friday, April 4, 2008
I'M OUT OF HERE...
There is much to say because our God is sooo good! We Puerto Ricans have a saying, "el Señor esta paso"! Y el Señor si esta paso!
The first day I was ready to go to see dad and let him know I finally arrived. We got to the hospital and this was when mom decided to let me know this is the worst part because she never knows what to expect. When I arrived I was a little caught off guard at what I saw. However, mom quickly did not allow what she saw bother her and she immediately proceeded to wake dad up. Apparently dad was having trouble sleeping so they gave him a sedative that made him drowsy. He was still groggy when we arrived. When he saw me I could see his eyes well up with tears and immediately mine did too. Quickly we got ourselves together and mom scattered for tissues in the event she needed to intervene.Of course, dad being dad (those of you who know him, know what I mean) the first question he asked me was "how did it go with the Board and Mark?" I've been setup I thought... oh, no! What to say? What to say? The truth, nothing but the truth so help me God. Can he handle the truth? So I told him the truth. Interestingly enough, Pastor Neville arrived and interrupted our conversation. In his 15 minutes he spoke words of encouragement into Pastor's life. Pastor Neville reminded Pastor that he has only one wife and is responsible for only one bride, God is responsible for His bride and he will take care of "her". Praise God!
God is good... yesterday was a great day! God told mom to take dad out in a wheelchair. Dad needs to be stimulated because he has been in the same room for too many months. So mom obeyed! She let dad know we were taking him outside at the second visit. When we arrived he was already sitting in the chair and we brought him his "The Church has left the building" shirt. We figured he could evangelize even in the wheelchair. We put his NY Giants SUPER BOWL cap on and off we went. We went out and around and to the front of the hospital in the warmth of the sun. Dad requested his sunglasses and even water to sip while outside. We were outside for about an hour and left it up to dad to determine when he wanted to return inside. Dad was like a kid! He enjoyed watching the people and the palm trees blowing, the beautiful clear, blue sky and the conversations, etc. etc. He looked great! We took him back inside and requested he rest up because we were coming back with the ROS DVD for the night visit.
In the evening we watched the ROS dvd produced by WEPA productions, which is a short story about the "lost" sheep of ROS that are roaming around in need of their shepherd. He watched the entire dvd from beginning to end. He had a big smile on his face! While watching the worship, he said we have a very good worship team. Amen! Agreed. He even asked where was Jorge (of course he notices everything - Jorge didn't sing on Sunday). We even pointed out that the four chairs are STILL on the altar!! The DVD was great and a blessing! I think both mom and dad needed a little taste of the ROCK.
We came home and we were so grateful to our Lord for his faithfulness! We thanked the Lord for all that he allowed us to witness this day. We are confident God is stirring and moving on dad's behalf. Dad told us he had to walk before he can come home on a commercial flight. Mom and I told him we are not waiting for him to come home on a commerical flight and as soon as the doctor says the word (in God's time) we are out of here.... He said it was too much $$$ and we reminded him that God has it covered. Continue to pray, we believe God is preparing the way.
Today, Friday, was a little less stimulating. We didn't take dad outside, but he did go into a wheelchair and we took him for a stroll in the lobby and he was able to look out the picture windows. We spent a lot of time and detail talking about the church. He knows our Sunday School Loyalty Campaign starts this weekend and he said he wants to be home for the ending in May. That is May 4th to be exact. So, prayer warriors, intercessors, watchpeople and everyone else, please stand in the gap for this request because we are confident God is able to do exceedingly, abundantly more than we can ever imagine or ask.
We left dad with homework to work on his left hand exercises in the morning, so we can go outside during the afternoon visit. God made it clear today that we must take him outside. As long as the weather is good and we have a wheelchair we will continue to take him outside to enjoy God's creation. Dad is having difficulty with the left hand, pray him through people. They let him stand up today and he was able to stand, but then his knees gave in. These are all good signs, very good signs.
We will declare the glory of the Lord all the days of our lives! At the end of this day we can say..."And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
New Arrival...IT'S A GIRL!
Hellllllllo South Africa! I finally made it in! I'm looking forward to seeing the Pastor tommorow. I'm ready with my pen and notebook and even my video camera if needed. I didn't want to tell anyone before, but I'm not very good at reading lips, so... I hope we will be able to communicate with minimal frustration.
Mom looks beautiful! She had some nice stylish jeans on that actually fit. We are going to pickup the car tommorow a.m. and mom wants me to go for a test drive around the local roads before taking her to see dad at the hospital. I think she is worried I'll have difficulty driving on the other side of the street. I don't see what the big deal is... my only question is what is the speed limit?
Mom shared some amazing testimonies of how God just this week has been using her to rise up and do warfare for dad and to speak into his life. Praise God! You go mom!! Answered prayer, answered prayer!!! Continue praying for her and dad of course and for God to position people in the Santiago path who will be resourceful in bringing dad back to the states. Nothing is impossible for our God!
Thank you Santiago's! Keep praying...as we ALL believe b/c we have seen, the effectual fervent prayer of the righteous avails much! Amen!
Mom looks beautiful! She had some nice stylish jeans on that actually fit. We are going to pickup the car tommorow a.m. and mom wants me to go for a test drive around the local roads before taking her to see dad at the hospital. I think she is worried I'll have difficulty driving on the other side of the street. I don't see what the big deal is... my only question is what is the speed limit?
Mom shared some amazing testimonies of how God just this week has been using her to rise up and do warfare for dad and to speak into his life. Praise God! You go mom!! Answered prayer, answered prayer!!! Continue praying for her and dad of course and for God to position people in the Santiago path who will be resourceful in bringing dad back to the states. Nothing is impossible for our God!
Thank you Santiago's! Keep praying...as we ALL believe b/c we have seen, the effectual fervent prayer of the righteous avails much! Amen!
Tuesday, April 1, 2008
GOD IS STILL IN CONTROL!
Yesterday was pretty much the same as every other day. With just a bit of snags along the way. However, today was a great day. Chris is getting better and better. His body continues to gain strength. When he is sitting up he is able to hold his head up normally and he can sit up straight. He can look around with no problem and he looks as though he can get up and go home!
The doctors continue to be optimistic although they always emphasize that it is a slow process however, he continues to surprise them! He is quite funny at times and at other times he is just Pastor. Those of you who know him well know exactly what I am saying. He asks about his sons, his grandchildren, friends and family and of course, his beloved Rock of Salvation. I always give him a good report and he is at peace. We pray together and God has given both of us great courage and an overwhelming sense of peace. Only God can do that.
To all our family and friends and the Body of Christ, thank you for your continued intercession on our behalf particularly those on behalf of Pastor.
God Bless,
Lali
The doctors continue to be optimistic although they always emphasize that it is a slow process however, he continues to surprise them! He is quite funny at times and at other times he is just Pastor. Those of you who know him well know exactly what I am saying. He asks about his sons, his grandchildren, friends and family and of course, his beloved Rock of Salvation. I always give him a good report and he is at peace. We pray together and God has given both of us great courage and an overwhelming sense of peace. Only God can do that.
To all our family and friends and the Body of Christ, thank you for your continued intercession on our behalf particularly those on behalf of Pastor.
God Bless,
Lali
Saturday, March 29, 2008
WITH GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE!
Yesterday was a very good day! Nothing really new to share with you. We had a number of visitors and Chris spoke with everyone of them. Pastor Goldman and his brother came as well and as usual Pastor Goldman preached a "mini" sermon. We had a very blessed visit.
Today as well was a very good day. In the morning when I arrived Chris was sitting in his easy chair and looked quite pleased with himself. He gave me a run down on the doctors' new information during their routine morning visit. This man is truly remarkable. He doesn't miss a beat. He really looks great and we enjoyed our morning visit. The afternoon visit went well, although he looked a bit tired. After sitting for a while he always seems to be a bit tired. We spoke about many things, the grandchildren, his boys, the church and his concern for their well being. I explain that all is well and everyone is working in unity. Praise God!
This evening I was able to stay a bit longer and he gave me a run down on what went on in the ICU. He keeps a running log on what goes on and thinks of ways there could be improvement...that's Pastor! He mentioned that he misses home and is looking forward to going back. When it was time for me to leave he said he would pray. He prayed for his family, his friends, the people from Ebenezer Centre and for our church, Rock of Salvation.
God bless and keep praying.
Today as well was a very good day. In the morning when I arrived Chris was sitting in his easy chair and looked quite pleased with himself. He gave me a run down on the doctors' new information during their routine morning visit. This man is truly remarkable. He doesn't miss a beat. He really looks great and we enjoyed our morning visit. The afternoon visit went well, although he looked a bit tired. After sitting for a while he always seems to be a bit tired. We spoke about many things, the grandchildren, his boys, the church and his concern for their well being. I explain that all is well and everyone is working in unity. Praise God!
This evening I was able to stay a bit longer and he gave me a run down on what went on in the ICU. He keeps a running log on what goes on and thinks of ways there could be improvement...that's Pastor! He mentioned that he misses home and is looking forward to going back. When it was time for me to leave he said he would pray. He prayed for his family, his friends, the people from Ebenezer Centre and for our church, Rock of Salvation.
God bless and keep praying.
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Change of Guard
Today was my first day alone with Chris. John has gone home and Rod was unable to return at this time. I trust that I will be able to do as good a job as my wonderful sons have done. Aren't they the BEST!!! God has always been very good to me. I want to thank my sons for their dedication and their love to their father and to me. I can't imagine what I would have done without the three of you. May God continue to bless you and use your dedication for His glory and honor. I love you very much.
This morning John and I went to the hospital and it was very difficult watching John saying goodbye once again. I stepped out to give them some privacy and to pray for strength. God is good and all went well.
John and I then drove to the airport. We were greeted by Pastor Russell, his wife Liesle and their two children, Pastor Larry, Pastor Neville and Pastor Roji. John went to check in and was told he was late! His flight was at 12:30 not 1:30. However, there had been a delay and he could board as there was just one more seat available. John, being John said he would take it if it was first class. The attendant said it was! Then she proceeded to say that noone had told anyone why the delay in departure and that certainly: ONLY GOD WOULD DO THIS! Can you believe it? So John got off and he went first class! (As it turned out the attendant was a christian and has been visiting Ebenezer Centre. GOD IS AWESOME!!!)
Pastors Neville & Roji took me to their home where we had tea and then Pastor Roji took me to the afternoon visit. Chris was doing very well and we spoke for a while then I was picked up and taken back home to rest. The evening visit went very well and Chris looked rested.
I trust that you will all continue to pray for Chris and to thank God for his protection and faithfulness towards us.
God Bless,
Lali
This morning John and I went to the hospital and it was very difficult watching John saying goodbye once again. I stepped out to give them some privacy and to pray for strength. God is good and all went well.
John and I then drove to the airport. We were greeted by Pastor Russell, his wife Liesle and their two children, Pastor Larry, Pastor Neville and Pastor Roji. John went to check in and was told he was late! His flight was at 12:30 not 1:30. However, there had been a delay and he could board as there was just one more seat available. John, being John said he would take it if it was first class. The attendant said it was! Then she proceeded to say that noone had told anyone why the delay in departure and that certainly: ONLY GOD WOULD DO THIS! Can you believe it? So John got off and he went first class! (As it turned out the attendant was a christian and has been visiting Ebenezer Centre. GOD IS AWESOME!!!)
Pastors Neville & Roji took me to their home where we had tea and then Pastor Roji took me to the afternoon visit. Chris was doing very well and we spoke for a while then I was picked up and taken back home to rest. The evening visit went very well and Chris looked rested.
I trust that you will all continue to pray for Chris and to thank God for his protection and faithfulness towards us.
God Bless,
Lali
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Wheel him around
Yesterday Dad was put into a wheelchair!! They took him for a ride to the front lobby entrance and he was able to look outside. The ride was short lived due to him coughing. Since he has been laying down for so long he has a build up of phlegm that causes him to cough whenever he is sitting up or moved. But being able to sit in a wheelchair is a big step for Dad. One of the concerns was that he would not be able to hold his head up or have enough strength to keep his body upright....but it was not a problem for him. GO POP! As you can imagine he exerted a lot of energy during this process and was sleeping the rest of the day. He only had one request and that was a clear pair of socks:)
Today he sat in his chair again but only for an hour. He is still tired from yesterdays action. We talked with him today and he was mentioning the things that he has been missing. Some things he said he missed besides food of course where leaves on the trees and green grass! He told me he spends most of his time thinking about the church and sermons he is going to write....what do you expect he is a preacher!
Today he sat in his chair again but only for an hour. He is still tired from yesterdays action. We talked with him today and he was mentioning the things that he has been missing. Some things he said he missed besides food of course where leaves on the trees and green grass! He told me he spends most of his time thinking about the church and sermons he is going to write....what do you expect he is a preacher!
Friday, March 21, 2008
Good Friday
The last couple days Dad has been tired. As you can imagine it is a tremendous adjustment on his body to be sitting for a couple of hours at a time. After he sits for sometime he seems to be very sore. This again is part of the process and the more he sits the more accustom his body will become to this position. In the meantime we continue with exercises to keep the flexibility in his body and to help regain its strength. I think it is safe to say he is officially off the ventilator. He has not required any breathing assistance (except the oxygen) since Monday. He legs have become increasingly stronger this week. He told me he could drive:)
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Going for a drive.....

That's right he is sitting in a chair! When we went to visit Dad Tuesday the nurses told us that Dad had a lot to tell us. As we were walking into the ICU we could tell that something wasn't right. All the nurses were looking at us almost anticipating what we were going to see once we got to the room. Sure enough he was sitting in a chair. Before they sat him they took him for a little drive around the hospital in his bed. Dr. Britz orders were to give him a change of scenery. After his "drive" he was placed in a chair. He complained of dizziness but that is to be expected after 2 and a half months of laying down. He was in great spirits. The nurses were just as excited about Dad sitting in chair as mom and I were. They took pictures as well. Today was the same for him. A couple of hours in a chair then the rest of the time in the bed. He is now on oxygen only and doing well. I forget how funny he is. He has had Mom and I laughing all week. Although no sounds come out of his mouth, he is still as animated as ever. He is aware of how long he has been in the hospital and he still remains patient. Please continue to pray for him and strength for mom.
Sunday, March 16, 2008
A full day....
The last few days Dad has been on Oxygen (T-Piece) for 2 hours at a time. He has been doing really well breathing without the assistance of the ventilator. When it is time for him to sleep at night they place him back on the ventilator to ensure a good night sleep. Today he was on the T-Piece from 7:00am till 8:00pm! Again they will place him on the ventilator during the night so he can rest. His lungs continue to strengthen everyday along with the rest of his body. He is trying to convince us to bring some chocolate in and let it melt on his tongue. If you know my dad he is not big on sweets so you know he is just craving something to bring relief from the straight protein diet he is currently on. Although the food is feed straight to his stomach through the peg...the after taste makes his eyes water.
As you can imagine Dad is pretty popular in the hospital. Since most of the workers attend Ebenezer Church and he has been here for 3 months, he has become friendly with all the staff. They really do take great care and watch over him constantly. This helps us rest peacefully:) Its a blessing.
Papa says "Happy Birthday Kiki!"
As you can imagine Dad is pretty popular in the hospital. Since most of the workers attend Ebenezer Church and he has been here for 3 months, he has become friendly with all the staff. They really do take great care and watch over him constantly. This helps us rest peacefully:) Its a blessing.
Papa says "Happy Birthday Kiki!"
Thursday, March 13, 2008
Happy Birthday!!

March is a busy month for the Santiago clan. It starts with a birthday on the 5th (mine) and the an anniversary on the 11th, Dad's birthday on the 13th, Kiki's birthday on the 15th, and Rodney's birthday on the 21st. Today Dad turns 68!! This morning the nurses had set up balloons around his bed. The church had also sent Dad a fruit basket with birthday balloons. He was quick to tell me to take what I want and give the rest to the nurses. Dad being Dad. They sang him happy birthday and then a nurse did a Zulo dance for him. The last two days he has continued to improve. The strength in his lungs is steadily improving. Evan came in to visit Dad yesterday. This young man who has had GBS twice has been extremely encouraging to Dad. He is able to relate and provide him a comfort level on his condition. No one else can provide that type of insite unless you have experienced this syndrome before. He told Dad to be ready when he is ready. Not to let the doctors or family rush him into recovery. He explained to him the importance of rest and to listen to what his body is telling him. Dad shook his head yes and then we began working on his breathing. The last two days he has done really well.
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Happy Anniversary ( First Picture)


Today is Mom and Dads 47th Anniversary!! So Dad decided to have a little surprise waiting for her when we went to visit him this morning. When we entered the ICU the curtains to his room were closed. This usually means that they are preparing him and we have to wait till they are finished. But they waived Mom in and tada.....Roses and a candle with two wine glasses filled with apple juice.
Before Mark left, he showed me the exercises that he was doing with Pop. Bicep resistance, tricep raises and leg presses. I continued exercising with him today. He is considerably stronger than the last time I was here. Seeing him move his body around and being able to lift his arm when we put it behind his head is very encouraging. He still does not have enough strength to raise his arms or lift his legs on his own, but from the last time I saw him he looks like a different man. We try to be as accurate as possible in our blogging so that we can share with you and bring you closer to our experience. For those who have not seen him, you could never fully understand what kind of condition he was or is in now. From the beginning when it was hard to articulate his condition to now where clearly he has made major steps, his progress has been a blessing. He still has a long road a head of him. He is still on the ventilator but his body is regaining its strength and soon they will try again to remove him from the ventilator and give him only oxygen.
Dad was asking a lot of questions today. From the procedure they do to remove him from the ventilator to making sure Mark is calling his accountant....Mark make sure you call her:)..We also talked about the Mets spring training, going to the dentist after he is out, the cost of the medical flight, etc...you get the point. Then he said that in New York they would have not been able to diagnose his condition as quickly as they did here.
His memory has improved. He was letting us know how much he remembers before he was admitted to the ICU. Again we thank you for all the prayers and be encouraged because they are working.
Sunday, March 9, 2008
God Blesses
Sorry for not updating the blog, but the past two days have been super busy. Mom and I have been going to bed at 1:30am each night; in fact it is currently 1:25am. Friday was a good day for Dad, he looked well rested and he slept throughout the day. In total he slept around 14 hours, without any sedation. As I said earlier he was exhausted! In between his rest Mom asked Dad if the Lord has been speaking to him. He said “The Lord hasn’t said anything.” And Mom told him to keep praying and to keep seeking.
At Friday evening’s visit one of the nurses came to us and asked us if she could allow a visitor, who admitted that he did not know him or us, in to see Dad. The nurse explained to us that the visitor said he received a call from “his people” in Peoria and they told him that he needed to visit with a Pastor who was hospitalized in GreenAcres Hospital in Port Elizabeth. Mom and I hesitantly agreed and the man came in the room and explained his purpose for coming. Immediately my spirit connected with him and I was able to discern sincerity and God’s love in him. He went on to say that he has dedicated a good part of his life counseling people in various venues and that he is an elder in his church who simply wants to be used by God. After we gave him a brief history of Dad’s situation he asked us if we would allow him to pray for Dad. We agreed and he asked if we could hold hands and of course we agreed. As soon as the man started to pray the presence of the Lord filled the room. When he was done he said “Did you notice that the Lord didn’t have me pray for healing?” Mom and I shook our heads yes and he turned to Dad and said “I really feel the Lord impressing on my heart to tell you to keep up the good work you’ve already started.” He also said that this experience was going to give Dad a wonderful testimony that he can share with the world and that God will speak to him while he is lying in the bed. He then said "Don’t give up, God will speak!” Mom and I were flabbergasted. Then as quickly as he came in he left, it was as if we were visited by an angel… in fact, we were.
Saturday was another good day for Dad. He looks great! His body is coming alive. His muscle tone continues to improve and his muscle movement is improving everyday. He’s actually gaining a little (very little) weight on his legs. We continue to do resistance training every day and I can see the improvement each day, it is awesome to see.
John arrived today and it was great to see him. He seems ready for his second tour of duty and I am sure he will do a terrific job, just as he did before. I can leave knowing that Mom is in good hands and that John will continue to work with Dad while he visits with him in the hospital. It has been a month since I landed in SA and I must say that, surprisingly, I find it a bit hard to leave. The people that I’ve met here are incredible and it will be hard to forget them and these weeks spent in SA. This expereince has helped me to mature in several areas but most importantly I've learned that God blesses, even in our darkest hour. All we need to do is seek him and trust him. What an awesome God we serve. Keep praying and trusting the Lord for Dad's safe return.
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